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Paying alimony: It's not just for husbands anymore

Some Ohio residents may be surprised to learn that nearly 40 percent of married women earn more than their husbands. Many people believe that the closure of the income gap is beneficial for women, however, there is one unanticipated consequence. Increasingly, women who divorce are being ordered to pay spousal support to their husbands - and they are not happy about it. It is well known that many men do not appreciate having to pay a spouse after the relationship ends, so it is not surprising that many women feel the same way.

Spousal support was introduced because of the separate roles in a marriage. The men worked, and the women stayed home. When a marriage ended, the women often had no skills or ability to provide for themselves, and therefore needed assistance. Alimony was the court system's way of legally recognizing that the female partner had given up her right to earn a living and that there is some value in that decision.

Division of term life insurance policy during divorce

During a divorce, one of the main concerns of both parties is the division of assets. The laws vary from state to state. In an equitable distribution state such as Ohio, assets are divided fairly based on cash value, with an equal division as a starting point to work from. However, handling a life insurance policy held by one of the parties might confuse both policy holders and beneficiaries alike.

The policy holder of a life insurance policy might decide to remove their partner as a beneficiary and designate someone else. The confusion comes when trying to determine the difference between a term life insurance policy and a permanent life insurance policy. While a term policy carries no cash value, a permanent life insurance policy does have some value. Since the term policy has no cash value, the spouse who is the policy holder is free to do what they wish with the policy. If that person pays the premiums, they have the authority to designate beneficiaries.

Another consideration is the original purpose of the term life policy. If it was intended to help support the children in the event of death, then the policy holder might consider a transfer of policy ownership. However, if the policy existed to pay for expenses related to the marriage, the policy holder can then use the policy as they wish.

Should you hire a divorce lawyer

Many people in Ohio going through a divorce want to avoid a messy and contentious split, which is why some prefer to avoid hiring a lawyer and go through a collaborative divorce instead. However, divorce is often a messy and difficult process, no matter how well-intentioned individuals may be. Having a lawyer may actually reduce the ugliness of a divorce and ensure that someone is not taken advantage of.

There are many circumstances where having an attorney is very important, such as in cases where one spouse makes a great deal more than the other or there are a large amount of assets at stake. In these cases, an attorney may be required to help people ensure that they understand state laws regarding property division and help keep the outcome equitable. Another common instance where an attorney may be necessary is if a spouse is a bully or could be a danger to their spouse or children. Custody rights and protection from dangerous individuals may be better handled by a lawyer.

Adding debt to property settlement in divorce

While some individuals may think that spouses only litigate about what assets that each party should leave the marriage with during divorce proceedings, the fact is that many spouses argue over which debt should be allocated to each spouse. Individuals who live in community property states have a more difficult time in proving that a debt should not belong to him or her because he or she is presumed to be responsible for the community debt. However, individuals in equitable division states like Ohio may be able to protect themselves from their spouses' debts.

In community property states, a spouse has to prove by clear and convincing evidence that he or she is not responsible for the debt. This legal standard is difficult to prove and goes beyond the burden imposed on plaintiffs in personal injury cases. A spouse may be able to meet this test if he or she can prove that he or she was not aware of the debt and the debt was acquired in a way that only provided a benefit to the other spouse.

Ohio Supreme Court denies child

The Ohio Supreme Court recently heard a case regarding two parents who agreed about visitation and custody but could not agree on the surname their son should have. The father requested the court to force the mother to change the child's last name to match his while the mother requested the court deny the request because it could be detrimental for the child.

When the boy was born, he was given his mother's last name, but he had his father's first and last name as his middle names. Both parents signed the birth certificate. When the parents ended their relationship, the father requested visitation and started paying child support.

Permanent alimony faces strong opposition in many states

When approaching a divorce, whether in Ohio or another state, most people have the expectation that it will end their relationship permanently. However, as many divorcees have learned, this isn't the case due to permanent alimony laws in their states. This type of "spousal support requires the supporting spouse to pay alimony until the other spouse passes away or remarries. There is growing opposition throughout the country that brings these laws into question.

Each state varies slightly regarding the details of permanent alimony laws. An example from New Jersey is that someone married for 10-15 may end up paying 40-50 years of alimony. The opponents to permanent alimony laws argue that this is unfair. Many describe that this is a personal entitlement program.

British socialite accused of misrepresenting Her finances

Child support is often a complicated court case for citizens of Ohio and the rest of the United States as well as those from around the world. British Socialite Annabelle Bond stands accused of conspiring with her boyfriend Andrew Cader, millionaire and partial owner of the Tampa Bay Rays, in misrepresenting her financial condition in child support proceedings. Ms. Bond was involved in a relationship with a wealthy Wall Street financier and was requesting child support in the amount of $50,000 per month for her 5-year-old child. A Chinese court already awarded her request when Ms. Bond previously resided in China.

Lichtenstein's attorney accuses Ms. Bond and her boyfriend of conspiring to disguise large cash gifts as personal loans. He also argues that Ms. Bond lied to the Chinese court about her financial condition in order to obtain the largest child support award in the history of the Chinese court and as such, should not be allowed to benefit.

Ending a marriage when women have more money

When an Ohio couple faces separation, they need to consider a variety of financial factors. By the time they go through a divorce, they might realize too late that they could have planned more thoroughly even before they married. Women who earn more than their husbands need to take extra precautions when protecting themselves against the financial pitfalls that can come with divorce.

A prenuptial agreement saves couples money in the long run by helping them avoid expensive litigation that can tie up their money and potentially drain resources better spent on their children or on other long-term goals. While couples who are currently married can't draw up a prenuptial agreement, they may have the option of writing up a postnuptial agreement. However, the laws surrounding these vary by state, so they will need to seek legal counsel. An important part of marriage is keeping clear communication lines open about financial issues, and a formal agreement is one way to clarify expectations.

Tribal custody case makes its way to Supreme Court

Residents of Ohio may be interested to know that the U.S. Supreme Court reviewed a highly unusual child custody case. Child custody matters rarely reach the Supreme Court, but that is not what makes this case peculiar. Due to one biological parent's heritage, this custody dispute involved a complex premise.

One man spent three years seeking custody of his daughter. One South Carolina couple adopted the child after the father signed away custodial rights to his ex-girlfriend, who is the child's birth mother. Brown was due to be deployed to Iraq, and his previous attempts to visit his then four-month-old child were unsuccessful. Brown agreed to surrender full custody to the mother, and he expected visitation upon his return.

How long does it take to get a divorce?

Ohio residents who are filing for divorce may wonder how long the process will take from start to finish, but there is no fixed answer. The duration of the divorce process for any given couple depends on a variety of factors. In a divorce where there is relatively little acrimony and argument, for instance, it can proceed rather quickly, sometimes taking just a few months to complete. On the other hand, if the divorce is complicated or if both parties are contesting child custody or the division of assets, the divorce can take much longer.

Along with the normal serving and filing process, when a couple is going through a contested divorce, they will need to go through numerous extra steps that are not usually required in a mediated divorce. Some of the extra steps often include filing motions, going through hearings for the motions, completing court ordered mediation or co-parenting classes, going through discovery hearings and after a trial has completed, filing and going through the appeals process.